Saturday, January 12, 2013

Prepare To Be (less than) Amazed!...


I've always told people that I started dancing at the age of 5, but I don't think that's altogether true..

What IS true is that at age 5 my mother enrolled me in a class which consisted of a combination of ballet, tap, tumbling, baton twirling and eventually (I think) the hula if there was time to spare... And I did this all in an hour, one night a week, and probably just so my mom could have time to run back to school and finish planning her teaching curriculum for the next day.

I remember playing on the jungle gym outside of the dance studio afterwards, waiting for her to pick me up. I think that was my favorite part. Anyway, I really hated that "dance" class.

Recitals were a different story...


BTW... the boy who is walking away in the background is Michael Gutenplan, who threatened to "beat me up" every single day of my young life. I hear he is now an attorney out in LA or something...

But back on topic... I think I eventually quit. Either that, or my mom quit needing me to go, or whatever.

But then, when I was in 5th grade, a girl from school told me she was taking ballet lessons and I stood right there on the north side of the cross walk while we waited for the crossing guard to tell us we could cross, and showed her my perfect pique turns and pas de bouree's. As not to be "topped" or anything...

So I guess you could say that my real dancing interests began more when I was... like 10.

Except that it was STILL really just an after-school program funded by the LaPuente School District. And we held our classes in elementary school cafeterias with the fold out cafeteria tables being used as our barres. Being tallish, I usually hung onto the wall instead. But at least I went twice a week, and ALL we studied was ballet. Our teacher was Miss Joyce and I will love her to this day, even though it would take several years before she'd ever put me on pointe.



With good reason!...


Yet despite our somewhat amateurish circumstances, she really WAS an excellent teacher. I don't think I ever really got that "good" in her care, but she gave me a really, really great start. At least I think she knew what she was doing... and made the very best out of the resources available. Elementary school cafeteria stages or high school gymnasiums for recitals, etc...



Mary Lou and Me... my best friend and carpool buddy.



Finally on pointe!



A solo (?)



Snow White's Dove


And then, at some point during all this, I joined the Covina Valley Junior Ballet Company. Which was sort of a big deal, because we actually had to audition! And it was a huge time committment... All day Saturday, plus my regular weekday classes. (my daughters will probably get a smile out of that... along with the fact that the "ballet moms" were still exactly the same as we would encounter some thirty years later. Because some things never change!)

But it was my first brush with semi-professionalism and a Russian artistic director. Marilia Walsh was a force to be reckond with! And we performed at the (waitforit...) Mission Playhouse in Pasadena!..



Jeux de Cartes



The Pirates' Treasure



The Precious Gems


...and even once at the old LA Pilgrimage Theatre in LA, where we did "Cinderella" and "La Mer." (There's gotta be pictures of that somewhere!)


And then, it was sometime soon after this time that I just sort of stopped dancing, because I decided that I wanted to be an ACTRESS instead. Obviously this was way before the time of understanding the need to be a "triple threat."

So to be completely honest, I don't really know exactly just how it came to be that I would eventually end up dancing on B'way. Except for the fact that I'm a little competetive maybe.

Because see, there was this girl, Sandra, in Home Ec one day who I overheard talking about the dance garb that Juliet Prowse had been wearing in class last night. And when I asked her how she'd come to know that exactly she just rolled her eyes at me and said, "Because I was there."

Well, it had never dawned on me before that anyone would actually go into LA to take dance classes... but anyway, even due to our apparent like-interests, we never did become friends.

Years later, upon my first move to New York, I would find, not only did she live in my VERY same apartment on 72nd street, but was also a corps member of the New York City Ballet! She never recognized me at all... and I never said hello.

But I did do "standing room" a LOT that year at the NYCB, which is when I think I forever fell in love and became addicted to ballet and dancing! So thankyou Sandra (even though you'll probably never know it was you who unwittingly inspired my obsession.)

I do have to mention here, though, that a couple of years later we were both auditioning for the same Broadway show. We bumped into each other in the elevator going up to the 3rd floor of the Minskoff Studios and I finally had the nerve to introduce myself and express to her that I thought we'd gone to High School together. And what did she say to me? She said "Wow, you must have a really good memory." And that was about it.

Long story short, we had to do fouettes at that audition so talk about pressure! But as it turned out, I got called back and she didn't.

And that is an absolutely true story...

When I stop to think about it, it was more likely Saybher, Dennon, Jackie & Bill, Joe Bennett, Kathryn Lowe, Ron Forella, David Howard and Doug Wassell * who ultimately made me wanna keep on dancing.

So I just kept on dancing...

And then eventually... somehow things worked out.

*So many others to remember and acknowledge... but it's been a REALLY long time, so I'll have to do some googling first.

Saturday, January 5, 2013

T M B...

I'm not quite sure how to begin here, except to say that I think Thom may have added an "h" to his name right about the same time I added an "n".

And ALSO, that I think he's probably about the very best friend I've ever had.


For sure!

We met during our Freshman year of college at Cal State University Fullerton, though the Disney thing was probably one of the things that cemented us.

Or it could have been at least a thousand other things too. You can scroll (way) down to at least see 100 of the possiblities...

Anyway, when you're friends with someone for like 40 years its sometimes hard to keep the timeline straight so I'll just do the best I can to put some of these pictures in the order they came in with whatever memory I have left. I'm sure Thom will correct me if I'm wrong...

Please keep in mind this was WAY before the time of instantaneous photo ops. Because if otherwise, what follows could have been really frightening!


On The Circle Line the first time he came to visit me in New York (1974)



On some balcony in Newport Beach just as soon as I got back... (1974)



A Music Center afternoon (1975)



Out with the family after a performance of "Promises, Promises" (1975)



Another "Promises, Promises" afterparty - I must have taken the picture.. (1975)



Agent Day (1975)



Disney Easter Parade (1975)



Pardon Me Boys *cough* at Knotts Berry Farm (1976)



Thom with Tao (1976)



At a get-together with the NY Telephone Industrial cast (1977)



Rockerfellar Center (1977)



Rock Center Too (1977)



On the fire escape at my old "Hell's Kitchen" apartment (1977)



A picnic in Sheep's Meadow NYC (1977)



Somewhere more exotic... Like maybe Hawaii? Or Laguna..(?)

Told you my memory's failing me!

I wonder who wrote this?

Because I just found it...


I just love this picture! (from whenever it was..)

So what is it that seals the deal and makes two people be able to remain friends with each other forever? Because even after we'd lost touch for such a long time, we still WERE.


Catalina - One of the best times ever! (1987)

And then, STILL again, even after a lifetime later.


Dinner before "Wicked." (2007)

There is something just SO great about having someone who knows you, and has known you forever, through the very best and worst of it, and still sort of likes you. And even after all these many years later all you have to say is just say one little word (or a couple) and that person still completely gets it! So here goes:

The Hundred (or so) Reasons

  1. New Sights and Bright Lights
  2. Hello.. Western Airlines?
  3. Some more champagne?
  4. SIR, would you please put your cigarette out? You could blow up the whole plane!
  5. Are you the couple who just got married?
  6. I wonder if the bus terminal is anywhere near the Hilton.
  7. Cab driver take us there please. "cough, choke, gag" And could you also open your window?
  8. Only twenty-two dollars?
  9. I'm sorry but we're closed.
  10. Right this way Mr. Blackmore. May I suggest the prime rib?
  11. Maybe a pot pie out of the machine?
  12. Room 1717.
  13. The Bristol.. with all it's charm.
  14. Going back, we'll probably be all alone on the plane. haha
  15. Debbie, Jean... and John Goodwin
  16. Bette at Universal Amphitheatre
  17. The yapanese yen..
  18. Shiela Levine
  19. Alcoves
  20. Foam mattresses
  21. Letters on cassette
  22. "I gotta get this to the post office before it closes!"
  23. Bonds
  24. Rona...
  25. Hop on the bus Gus, no need to discuss much...
  26. Just drop off the key Lee, and get yourself free.
  27. Sparkle and Song All Summer Long
  28. Get those knees up Jannet!
  29. My calves hurt!
  30. I'll love you till the cows come home. Then I'll go back to loving cows again.
  31. And so vhere ar your troubles now? Gone? I told you so!
  32. Jen! I can't feel my legs! Tony!
  33. No, No Nanette
  34. But Oh when she dances.
  35. Are you tired of going to the same old bathroom?
  36. Red hat. Blond wig. Sunglasses. Yellow shopping bag. Don't make a mistake.
  37. I made a mistake...
  38. Let's see. Bed. Sleep. Touch. Struggle. But not too hard...
  39. Vegas in a Vega
  40. Sparkly jacket that just shouts homemade!
  41. Liza.. with a Z
  42. Rhinos...
  43. Dinners prior to all those red eye flights
  44. Melissa Manchester
  45. David's of Hawaii
  46. puka shells
  47. The Longacre Home for "wayward" Women
  48. Lost in Harlem
  49. The Cottage and Chicken Little
  50. Stephen Peck's pizza joint
  51. joints in general
  52. Polly's Pie Palace
  53. Promises, Promises
  54. Gittel and Jerry
  55. Katie and Hubbel
  56. Horace and Clarabelle
  57. "I know I'm different but from now on I'm going to try and be the same.."
  58. Eunice? There's a person named Eunice?
  59. Don't you know the meaning of propriety?
  60. Use your charm...
  61. JH Hunsaker
  62. The hostess did not shower for the occassion...
  63. sixty-nine... sixty-nine!
  64. I'm not the Butler Neely!
  65. You're not the breadwinner either!

*And yes, I know that there's not quite 100 up there yet. But that's what the comments section is for because I'm sure you'll be able to help me fill the quota with absolutely no problem Thom. We can call this a "work in progress..."

And then, can we do it all over again one more time? Except this time maybe facing AWAY from the mirror?..

For any of you who felt alienated by any of that up there, well, all I can say is that if you were meant to understand it, there would be a completely different set of initials up there in the title bar. Right?

Anyway... ain't he a doll!

May you have a most perfectly perfect 59th Thom!

We isn't that old yet!